"... but you can't help it who you fall in love with. If you could, who'd be single? Who'd be divored? Who'd have falling outs with their families. Sometimes I think the best way to let things go and to move on is to play them out. See for yourself whether it's going to work out or not. Get hurt if it's not and learn to get over with it."
-page 373
"And seriously, if you've got even the smallest chance at happiness, then why don't you grab onto it with both hands? It's hard enough finding someone who you're attracted to who is single and at the right time in their lives and feels the same way about you, why would you fight that?"
-page 375
adapted from Dorothy Koomson's Marshmallows For Breakfast.